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As a lesbian I am told and asked a lot of stuff. I
know that other lesbians will understand this. And for the straight people you
may realize that you have said one of these things to a lesbian.
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You’re too pretty to be gay!
o No I am too
pretty to be straight. That’s just my opinion though.
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I don’t want you to try to make me gay.
o I promise
there isn’t a gay meeting every week where if we turned a certain amount of
people gay we get a free toaster. Plus just because you are a girl does not
mean I want you.
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How do you know you’re gay if you haven’t even tried
being with a guy?
o Well how do
you know you’re straight if you haven’t tried being with a girl? I don’t have
to try anything with a guy to know because only girls give me butterflies.
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So how do lesbians have sex?
o Use your
imagination. I don’t think it’s hard to figure out.
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That is so gay! Oh no I’m sorry I forgot about you
being a you know what.
o Gay, queer,
faggot, dyke, ect. These words don’t bother me. In fact I use them often when
teasing my friends. It’s not a derogatory word unless you let it be. If I am
called a faggot I just smile and say “damn straight!”
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I know you are gay but can I at least watch?
o No. Go away
now.
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You just haven’t met the right guy yet.
o Correct!
For one simple reason, there is no Mr. Right for me because I want a Mrs.
Right.
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Are you sure this isn’t just a phase?
o I’ve been
aware of my sexuality for almost 8 years now. It is nowhere close to being a
phase.
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So who is the boy and who is the girl in the
relationship?
o With this
one I just assumer someone doesn’t know what a lesbian couple is because we are
both girls. That’s the whole point of it.
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Your family is okay with you being gay?!
o Yes they
are and they are very supportive. When someone asks that though they seem so
shocked which leads me to believe they aren’t so okay with it.
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Hello I am bi curious and since you’re a lesbian I
thought we could do something ;)
o Yes hi
hello. NO!!! No lesbian wants to be some experiment. Especially because you
catch those things called feelings and the girl decides she is straight.
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Are you really holding her hand in public?
o First off I
don’t even know how many times I have held hands with my sister or one of my
friends in public. Second yes I am holding her hand in public because I am
proud to be who I am and of who I am with. Straight people get to hold hands
and so do I!
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You don’t look like a lesbian.
o There are
many types of lesbians.
§ Studs/
Butch: Those are the lesbians that people think all lesbians should look like.
§ Chapstick:
I am a chapstick lesbian. I am feminine but I am not super girly.
§ Lipstick: A
lipstick lesbian is the kind of lesbian people are shocked is a lesbian. They
are the ones with dresses, skirts, and make up.
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You’re going to go to hell. (This is a personal
favorite of mine)
o I
personally do not believe that homosexuals will go to hell just for following
their hearts. In the case that we do it’ll be like a party. Gay people are a
lot of fun!
o So that’s a
few things I have heard more than once. I don’t mind answering the questions
but I hate the comments. So next time before you talk to a lesbian think before
you speak because not all lesbians are okay with those questions.
Good for you Baby girl, Maybe more people should talk to you as a person and not a lesbian and the world would be a better place. Love you always.
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